From: Saumya

Wednesday, December 21, 2011, 7:37 am [EST]

Attention: Marriage Prayers

Message: My husband and I are separated since January 2011. He has filed a divorce case also. He was abusing to me and taken all my gold and money. But now I am trying for a reunion. But he is not interested. Please help me to save my marriage and lead a peaceful life.

Married life was like a hell for me. There were a lot of financial problems, since my husband has lot of loans and other debts. Also most of the days he used to harass me by saying something related to my family or his family. The main cause was his younger brother's wife (his younger brother got married before 3 years, before our marriage). She used to unnecessarily interfere in all our personal things. I didn't like her taking over freedom with my husband and touching his body. After that I couldn't tolerate when my husband started comparing me with his brother's wife for each and everything. But I was keeping quiet. His brother and wife were jealous since I was working. Both of them and my mother in law planned many ideas to make me resign the job. They started telling many stories to my husband like girls should not go for work; they have to take care of the family only after hearing all these my husband will start mental and physical harassment.

Once I got conceived and my husband was getting tensed for that saying he does not have money to spend for checkups in hospital and he was confused whether the expense will increase if we get a baby. At last I got aborted because of his torture. Now also my eyes will fill with tears if I see some small babies. Most of the times my husband will not have his own opinion for anything. He will decide everything according to his younger brother and mom. Now also his mom and bother are only making the problems worst. They have applied a divorce case also. But relatives also filed a case in the court for dowry harassment since he has taken my whole gold and money and not giving back anything. Till now there is no progress in the cases in the court. The advocates are playing with our life. My husband is not ready to appear in the court for the counseling also. He is very stubborn and will not think about others. He is only concerned about his bother's wife and family. Even his father is also separated from his mother now. I don't want to go behind all these fights in court.

Since I don't have any siblings I am not able to share anything with anyone. I lost my dad also. My mom also undergone a major surgery before 3 months and her health is also poor now. After my engagement (for last 2 year) I didn't had mental peace. But still I don't know why I want to go back to my husband. I have a hope that his mentality will change one day. Relatives and friends are asking me to leave him and marry somebody else. But he is not ready to give back my jewels also. I don't know what to do. I am not interested to go for another marriage. Please pray to god to change my husband's mentality. Please separate him from his brother's wife and those who are not allowing him to lead a peaceful life with me. So many fights happened between both the parties. I don't know whether he will take revenge on me if we go for a reunion. Really I am in a very bad stage of my life. I didn't have anybody to share my feelings and decide something. One day I heard from my friends that lord Jesus will surely help us if we go and pray in St.Antony's church at Kalloor, Kochi. So for last 3 months I am going for Novena regularly in that church and decided to commit my life to lord Jesus. Already I have suffered a lot during last 2 years. Please pray to Jesus to give me peaceful life.